Technology's Potential to Disembody: How Polyvagal Theory Helps Me Picture It At its best, technology can enliven. At its worst, it can overwhelm. Technology offers and endless buffet of sensual information. Read more here.
Digital Dating and the Wisdom to Know the Difference Those in 12-step programs ask for the serenity to accept the things they cannot change, the courage to change the things they can and the wisdom to know the difference. Digital communication opens possibilities for dating that can be difficult to manage.
Be Online Dating Now: Mindful Online Dating Improves Nervous System Regulation It is possible that online dating can be a path toward mindfulness. Is online dating more of a path than, say, noticing the taste of food as we chew? Read more here.
Dating in Dangerous World How does terrorism effect our search for romance? Stephen Porges' polyvagal theory helps us understand that our bodies act out of different nervous system response when we sense danger than when we sense safety. Read more here.
Buyer's Remorse: in Dating and in the UK Ever bought into something and awoken the next morning with regrets. "Oh my god, oh my god, I like didn't really know like how messed up everything would feel this morning! Please God can there be a do-over." Read more here.
Technology Portals and NYTimes I read this Sunday NYTimes article. Check it out with attention to the internet addiction part of the story. Read more here.
Red Flags of the Online Dating Dance When I woke up this morning, I looked over at the pillow beside me... Instead of the sixty something year old partner I imagine (I'm 57) there was my laptop. I'm sleeping with my computer! Read more here.
That One Dozens of writers are trying to help daters find great relationships if we find The ONE! I mean no disrespect to those who claim this, but I'm now looking for THAT ONE instead of "The One." Read more here.
Adult Coloring and Naked Online: Why Adult Coloring Books? A major difference between the new adult coloring books and traditional children's coloring books is small spaces. If you Google adult coloring books, you see a good bit of talk about the small spaces. Read more here.