Welcome to Lustier Life

Home of the online dating guidebook Naked Online: A DoZen Ways to Grow from Internet Dating.
We’re here to help you navigate the vulnerability of online dating. The focus is not on how to catch and keep the partner of your dreams, it’s how to develop Lustier Life Skills.

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Mindful Online Dating Workshop

Join us in-person for the next workshop. Registration now open for August 16th!

Online dating has become a convenient and successful way to reach romantic matches. However, it can also bring up a whole lot of difficult feelings: swipe-anxiety, app avoidance, burnout, and more. Why not use online dating experiences as an opportunity for improving your relationship skills?

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Is online dating driving you crazy?

Maybe you’re feeling lost in your search for connection online. Navigating the world of profiles and prospects requires a level of vulnerability that can feel like standing naked in front of strangers. We offer our book, Naked Online: A DoZen Ways to Grow from Internet Dating, to help.

Naked Online is a guidebook for any online dater who wants to transform the rollercoaster experience of online dating into a more mindful journey. Notice how the authors sneak the word zen into the subtitle.

Naked Online Book

Consistency is key and burnout is real. Sustain your flame and keep online dating playful so you can focus on living a Lustier Life.

*illustration by J Cargile*

photo by Lisa Fieldhouse

Meet Carly

Inspired by the book, Carly Sackellares, dating coach and psychotherapist, has developed a Mindful Online Dating Workshop. Carly understands the frustrating and exciting whirlwind of online dating. Using Naked Online as a guide, her workshop helps online daters have fun and stay engaged in the process, while developing Lustier Life Skills for healthier relationships.

About Carly